Our relationship with ourselves is a template  for realtions with others. Guys will probably relate themselves better with women if they have a healthy friendship with themselves , when they are self-confident . But that confidence in we guys does fail sometimes the same way as water fails to mix with oil.

                  Women add grace to our society , they render man more civilized , a little more than horses(stallions), apes, elephants(bull-elephants) and pigs . men tend to behave in a more dignified, accepted way. the hunter instinct in man resurfaces from nowhere. They try to charm the fairer sex. Some sensible people find it funny but that's the rule to survive , generate.

                 Men , in all honesty, probably know as much about women as a new born knows about sex , even after experiences with a mother, sisters.....   ----and through birth, dating,marriages, pre and post marital affairs(extra-marital ones even!), divorce and plain co-existing with the emanicipated women throughout. " Men are from Mars and women from Venus"----said a Man and that reassures me!

                 Men and women never understand each other well. Maybe "the fear of rejection " makes it difficult for the two sexes to express themselves openly, to talk about their lives openly or even just to be friends.Women form sororities, networks and talk things out .Men also feel the lack of male friends in life when they are alone .Women do make the best of friends to men and ofcourse companions . Men ,I guess, are less expressive. Yet as if to contradict all this a man by default becomes the best friend of a woman.(I don't claim about the reverse phenomenon or maybe I just don't happen to know about it .) Women still remain a mystery . Or maybe this mystery makes things interesting.

               Let Woman be mystery and Venusian , they are alien and          fun that way;-)                                                                                                          zulu